cross-posted from: https://merv.news/post/130483
After the last post publicly by Naomi Wu being
“Ok for those of you that haven’t figured it out I got my wings clipped and they weren’t gentle about it- so there’s not going to be much posting on social media anymore and only on very specific subjects. I can leave but Kaidi can’t so we’re just going to follow the new rules and that’s that. Nothing personal if I don’t like and reply like I used to. I’ll be focusing on the store and the occasional video. Thanks for understanding, it was fun while it lasted”
Naomi Wu mentions briefly on her silencing and how she is not nearly as safe as she was before now that it’s obvious to the Chinese government her disappearance won’t cause an uproar of bad press making China look bad.
Let me give you a quick life lesson. Think of it as 3d printing a better personality
The response to ". " is not “How dare you insult me. I have never been insulted before in my life and I will not stand for it now!”
It is either understanding that you are not an incel and it is not referring to you. Or, if you aren’t that confident, you say “oh shit. just to make it clear, I am not an incel. I just genuinely had no idea who she was but still felt the need to go out of my way to enforce gatekeeping on this random message board”
The former makes you look like a deranged lunatic and… makes me increasingly sure that you felt attacked for a reason. The latter is how a normal human being acknowledges they accidentally did something shitty, from ignorance, but have learned from it.
Seriously?
You’ve typed too many words to try to rationalize your toxic behavior.
I repeat: pay attention to what you say and do. All communities have their bad apples, but this does not grant the likes of you the right to spoil the whole barrel.