All of those upgrades are absolutely doable. Given the price of those upgrades, all-in, a Voron will be a better value. Unless you have most of the parts already, anyway.
Although, I wouldn’t bother changing out the board unless you have specific needs. Firmware and config tweaks will take care of most issues I’ve seen with it.
The fan is probably on par with stock ender 3. But always-on.
I have the LDO Rev. C kit, and it is rock-solid. They’re releasing the Rev. D kit soon, and I can only imagine that’ll be even more refined. I printed my own parts using a combination of Phaetus aeWorthy ABS-GF and 3DXTech ABS-CF.
If your printed parts are good-quality, you follow the directions precisely, and stick to the kit (no mods beyond the LDO-provided ones), I see no reason it shouldn’t provide years of trouble-free service.