I see your problem.

You don’t believe people when they tell you who they are. You imagine their actions and their beliefs to be separate from the individual even though they are the beliefs and actions of the individual. Your idealism doesn’t reflect reality.

apologist
/əˈpɒlədʒɪst/
noun
a person who offers an argument in defence of something controversial.
‘critics said he was an apologist for colonialism’
synonyms: defender, supporter, upholder, advocate, proponent, exponent, propagandist, apostle, champion, backer, promoter, campaigner, spokesman, spokeswoman, spokesperson, speaker, arguer, enthusiast

A worldview that is incompatible with the cooperation of society. If you want to go play apologist for a bigot you might as well be one.

The real bigots don’t see past their prejudices, that’s why they’re bigots.

You have a fundamental misunderstanding of the limitlessness of human belligerence.

This isn’t an argument, it’s a fact. The only way to not be part of the social contract is to remove yourself from society, including all of societies infrastructure. You are obligated to support and work within the rules of the society you are a part of. If you object on moral reasons then you can make your attempts to change your society or which society you are part of through whatever means you have access to.

You were never apart from society so you are bound by the social contract by default, failure to uphold the social contract will result in the following violence: being put in the corner, being told ‘no’, spanking, detention, suspension, loss of employment, physical violence, police arrest, incarceration, garnishing of wages, loss of access to social services, etc.

Disingenuous

You don’t seem to be in a state of mind for willing absorbtion of information.

Serfs gonna serf.